Hello,and thanks for taking the time to view my Profile.I live a healthy active lifestyle that includes numerous forms of activity.I live a drama free life and try not to sweat the small things in life.One thing about me is that I love life and am a very positive person.I love to laugh,mostly at my own expense.Lol.I would hope that you are also positive and enjoy the company of a man that will treat you with respect. I don't want to describe what I think I am looking for in a person because I think that might eliminate the person that I possibly end up being with.Good luck 2 everyone on the Site.And all you single mothers that work and still raise and love you're kids you guys are the best,and if men don't want to date you because they think you carry baggage.Well their not good enough to date you.

My name is Benjamin.I am 60 years old and divorced for twelve years now.Hispanic, dark black hair, black eyes, 5' 9", 141 lbs,short hair and a healthy man. I am self-sufficient, handsome, happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure and working as an Estate Developer.I'm living with my kid.I am a South African by birth,my dad is a South African and my mom is from U.S.A.I have been in the states all my life. I am a hard working man and very freindly.

I am very honest and understandable

I am an average with above average ideals. I look younger than my years and I believe it is because I have never been a drinker or smoker, I do not take illegal drugs or gamble. I want to build a partnership with a lady where we both want to spend much time together. I also believe that it is not enough to just have the physical pleasure. I believe that for a husband and wife to truly be a partnership there must be a connection between them on all levels. There must be a connection of the minds, the verbal connection where there is understanding, open and honest communication as well as different levels of physical connection

Witty, intelligent, charming, good-looking= self absorbed. Lame, nerdy, boring= self effacing. I alternate between the the two.